Divorce your spouse
instead of ‘killing’ her
IMMIGRATION CORNER
By Michael J. Gurfinkel, Esq.
PLEASE allow me to share a letter I received
from a client for this week’s column.
“Dear Atty. Gurfinkel:
“I came to the U.S. in 1993, and
have not had any further contact with my spouse. I fell
in love with an American citizen, and we would like to
get married.
“I know that in order to marry my
American fiancée, I need to be single. But I don’t
want to go through the time and trouble of divorcing my
existing spouse. Would it be O.K. for my relatives in
the Philippines to obtain for me a fake “death certificate,”
making me a widower, so I can marry my fiancée?
I also heard that if a person has not seen or spoken with
his/her spouse for more than four years, the law considers
that missing spouse as being “dead.” Since
I have not spoken to my spouse for over four years, am
I now free to marry my American citizen fiancée?
“Very truly yours, T.M.”
Dear T.M.:
Under both Philippine and U.S. law, only
unmarried persons could enter into a marriage. Thus, if
you have a subsisting marriage, all your marriages that
follow would be void and of no effect. Before you can
marry again, your existing marriage must be legally terminated,
either through annulment, divorce or death of your spouse.
Therefore, if you marry your American citizen fiancée
without legally terminating your marriage to your spouse,
your marriage to the American citizen will be considered
bigamous and void. If your American citizen “spouse”
petitions you, and the U.S. Citizenship and Immigration
Services (USCIS) discovers that your first marriage is
still in force, the USCIS will deny the petition, and
possibly start deportation/removal proceedings against
you.
In your case, since your first wife may
still be alive, and your first marriage has not been legally
terminated, then you are not eligible to marry anybody
else, including your American citizen fiancée.
The USCIS, as well as the Embassy, are very wise to people
trying to “get away with” or “get around”
divorcing their first spouse, by pretending that the spouse
died. The USCIS in the U.S. routinely conducts overseas
investigations to verify documents provided by applicants,
including death certificates, and USCIS searches official
records, to make sure that the death certificate you gave
them is real. If they find that there is no death certificate
on file, they will catch your fraud, and then you will
be in big trouble.
Recently, a couple came to my office for
consultation. She was an American citizen, and he was
a TNT (tago ng tago). They wanted to get married, and
she would petition him. The man stated that he was a widower,
and even presented a death certificate to me. He swore
to me that he truly was a widower, and the death certificate
was real. During the consultation, when I mentioned to
him that the USCIS will check and verify his documents,
he finally changed his story, and admitted that his first
wife was still very much alive, but he just wanted to
“save time and money” by “faking”
her death.
My advice to him, and to any other person who is thinking
of representing themselves as widows or widowers with
fake death certificates of their spouse, is to just divorce
your first spouse legally. In California, it only takes
approximately six months to conclude a valid, legal uncontested
divorce. Then, you will be free to remarry. If you try
to play tricks and games with the USCIS, you risk a lifetime
of uncertainty, with the fear in the back of your mind
that your first spouse or friends, relatives, etc., may
later become mad or jealous and “report” you
to the Immigration and Naturalization Service (INS) about
your double marriages.
It is also a myth and misconception that
a spouse is somehow “presumed dead” if a person
lost contact with that spouse for over four years. You
must go to court, have a court hearing, present evidence
and testimony about efforts to track down or locate the
supposed “missing spouse” for your spouse
to be declared legally dead. The spouse’s relatives
may be called, to verify that the spouse is truly missing.
It is only after the conclusion of a court proceeding,
and a “court order,” that a person may rely
on that “presumption of death.” It is not
“automatic.” You need a court order!
If your spouse is alive, my advice is to do it right,
do it legal, and just divorce, instead of becoming a widow
or widower, using a fake death certificate.
If you are being petitioned by a spouse
on the basis of a bigamous marriage (because you did not
bother to terminate your first marriage), then such cannot
be approved since it is a bigamous marriage.
That is why if you have any questions or
concerns about your case, and whether or not it is “approvable
when filed,” you should seek the advice of a reputable
attorney (and, of course, be truthful with that attorney
concerning the facts of your case). You have to make sure
your case was “approvable when filed.”
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